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My Life is Like a Country Song

My Life is Like a Country Song

There is no doubt I am a Country Music Fanatic. I love the concept of a country life, plain and simple. Now, in saying My Life is Like a Country Song (to give credit where credit is due, this is a play on Chris Cagel’s My Life’s Been a Country Song), I don’t mean the country song about how the wife has left him, the dog dies, and he has been drinking to no end. I mean the concept of family, good values and simplicity! The front porch swinging, slow paced living kind of song.

When you live in a busy area (like Orange County, CA) you somewhat feel the need to stay busy like all the others. There is a feeling you are missing something if you don’t do it all. Whether you are a stay at home mom, with a crowded activity/volunteer schedule, or the high powered executive who needs to close just one more deal, it seems as if we are wearing ourselves out. Personally, the fast paced life can beat me up. Some days I dream of sitting on a wrap around porch, sipping tea, rocking in a swing and staring out at a field of grass. (Of course I would be listening to some old Kenny Rogers and the sound track to Urban Cowboy). I guess I just wish the world would slow down, at least for a day or two.
For most, to slow down we dream of relaxing vacations. We go on vacations with the idea we are going to relax, but come home more exhausted then we left because we crammed in so much on vacation we never had the opportunity to relax. Not to mention the amount of money we spend on vacations that make us feel we need to work more to pay off what we spent! It is like a vicious cycle that never ends.
I keep myself, home, and family organized so I feel a little less crazed in my daily life. There is rarely a time where we are stressing out looking for something. We are efficient as we can be in a busy life. This allows us to have time to hang out and just be. But for some reason, I still feel the need to do more. My brain can be on overdrive, while my surroundings are not. On my lists: write a book, update my website, send out a mailer, work on my presentations, PDF downloads on my website…the list goes on and on. I want to try and squeeze in so much I don’t allow myself to have the down time I need. I am always thinking of the next project.
This year, I am making a vow to allow myself at least one day to just do nothing. Well, not really, I am a mom and that requires full time work, but to really not work on the house or my business. Just to be with my family and just BE! We have Adirondack chairs on our front porch and this summer I will be planting my bum on those while I watch my kids play. I will read, I will relax, and I will know that my work will still be there when I get back to reality. With my organizational skills, having a systems and procedures in place, I know I can allow myself to have the quite happiness I am looking for! Now if only the asphalt street I look out to on my front porch could turn into a field of wild flowers…

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5 Lazy Ways to Organize

How many times do you think about organizing a drawer or even a room and give up because it is too overwhelming? Well, I hate to break it to you - organizing is work, but organizing doesn’t have to be a nightmare! Like weight-loss, most people are looking for a quick fix to organizing. And as we have learned, quick weight-loss doesn’t work and you return to the habits which got you to where you were in the first place. The same rings true with organizing. Creating new habits will make organizing a breeze as time goes on.

Lazy is defined as slow moving or sluggish. Organizing the “lazy way” will still take time (I didn’t call it 5 Fast Ways to Organize now, did I?). Going in with a lazy mindset will help you slowly and steadily gain control over the disorganized clutter monster that looms over your head! Patience is a virtue! The old adage, “How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time” should be playing in your head as you tackle your clutter and disorganization.

  1. Get over perfection! Most people feel organizing is about living Martha Stewart Perfect. Not the case! It is really as simple as finding what you need when you need it and keeping what you need, use and love. Finding a good home for what you have is essential. Keep those things you use often close to you, not as frequently a little further, and those you don’t use often furthest away.
  2. Get over guilt! If you are holding onto things because you’d feel guilty getting rid of it DON”T! (Like your friend who gave you a shirt that just doesn’t look good on you, but you feel she will get her feelings hurt if you give it away). You will be able to shed yourself of so much clutter when you purge the guilt first! Those who love you should understand your needs are, and guilt isn’t one of those needs!
  3. Stick to one area at a time! If you want to organize the whole house, trying to organize it all at once will take longer. You will become the Tasmanian Devil, spinning on a path of destruction. Choose one area to organize at a time. Slow and steady wins this race! Seeing one project through to the end will give you the motivation to continue on to the rest of the house.
  4. Stop making to-do lists! If you skip this step and put your tasks directly into your to-do lists, then you will actually have the time to get things done! If you need to purge your brain to get it out of your head, create different lists. You need one for long term goals, short term goals and one for everyday tasks. Work those lists into your calendar to see what you can accomplish daily, monthly and yearly. Remember to leave room in your schedule for fun!
  5. Get help! Any way you look at it, help is the best way to change your habits. You will have someone to hold you accountable. Don’t you have enough on your plate? Adding self accountability (is that a phrase or did I just make it up?) is just one more thing to worry about. Pass that responsibility on!

You can actually waste time by being “hyper” organized (as I like to call it). You can procrastinate on projects by organizing as a distraction. You can lead an unbalanced life if you are so focused on perfection. Organizing should bring you more time to do what you love and want to do. So get lazy and organize your home one space at a time!

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